How to Make a Girl Squirt: Techniques & Positions Per Sex Experts
Let’s tackle those burning curiosities and make sure you’re fully ready to give the kind of massage she’ll never forget. This one is dedicated to some simple finger play to get you in the squirting zone with foreplay, using just your fingers. Already aware of the general position of the g-spot, you can reach it with just your index finger. However, that doesn’t quite cut it, and doesn’t create the best positioning for an orgasm.
I’d always put import on giving my partners orgasms. Being able to make them squirt, I imagined, would be almost as rewarding for me as it would be for them. THE FIRST TIME I saw squirting, I didn’t really know what I was looking at. The squirter was named Cytherea, an adult actress who had become synonymous with an ability to ejaculate large volumes of fluid – that was supposedly not pee – during sex acts. So rare was this talent that a 2004 interview with Adult Video News described her as having a “one-of-a-kind sexual gift.” But then, a funny thing happened.
Making a girl squirt during sex follows a very similar progression as with your fingers. You need to make her feel safe and relaxed and turn her on with foreplay how to make a girl squirt, however, you will be stimulating her G-spot with your penis during intercourse, not with your fingers. Learning how to make yourself squirt is a journey of self-exploration and understanding.
The first time I squirted, it was a small trickle, so the surprise clean up wasn’t a big deal. Now I would ruin a bed with what feels like liters of fluid (though it is likely not nearly that much) and I won’t let myself come unless I know I’m on a safe surface. We also have waterproof mattress protectors under our bed sheets. If you’ve got a waterproof surface like a Liberator Throe, throe it down (hah!). They’re great for sex fluid clean up regardless of squirting so they’re a pretty awesome investment. You can also get more affordable granny pads designed for incontinence, which are smaller than a Throe but very handy.
If you’re feeling tense or anxious, it can be difficult to let go and allow your body to experience pleasure. Stop “trying” to squirt and just enjoy yourself, whether you do or don’t squirt. Once you’ve located the G-spot, experiment with different types of stimulation, such as rubbing, tapping, or pressing. Most women report a “come here” motion with the fingers feeling the best.